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The Tuesday Meeting of The Ten Stages discussed Viktor Frankl on the Art of Presence as a Lifeboat in Turbulent Times and What Suffering Teaches Us about the Meaning of Life

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The Tuesday Meeting of The Ten Stages discussed Viktor Frankl on the Art of Presence as a Lifeboat in Turbulent Times and What Suffering Teaches Us about the Meaning of Life

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The shorter your sleep, the shorter your life: the new sleep science | Life and style | The Guardian

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The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. www.thetenstages.com

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Stagers Mind of Calm is the modern meditation technique that proves the secret to success is ten stage stillness.

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Title: Stagers Mind of Calm is the modern meditation technique that proves the secret to success is ten stage stillness.
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Stagers Mind of Calm is the modern meditation technique that proves the secret to success is ten stage stillness. Instead of having to sto...

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<br /><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Stagers Mind of Calm is the modern meditation technique that proves the secret to success is ten stage stillness.<br /><br />Instead of having to stop our thoughts, change our emotions or perfect our life before we can enjoy serenity and recovery. Mind of Calm can help us to access the inner perfect child within of calm, clarity, confidence and contentment - Quickly. While also helping us to perform at our best, sleep better, access our intuition and creativity and connect with others.  <br /><br />Stagers Mind of Calm works by helping us to change our relationship with our perfect child within by being 'consciously aware' during daily life. Different from mindfulness because it is awareness-based instead of mind-based, you can enjoy the big benefits of Stagers Mind of Calm anytime and anywhere. If we want to stop our minds from working overtime, worry less, feel better and get more done with less stress, then Stagers Mind of Calm is the modern-day meditation technique .</span>

Stagers Mind of Calm is the modern meditation technique that proves the secret to success is ten stage stillness.

Stagers Mind of Calm is the modern meditation technique that proves the secret to success is ten stage stillness. Instead of having to sto...

Remind yourself that eating a potato chip with Kindfulness is vitally important.

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Title: Remind yourself that eating a potato chip with Kindfulness is vitally important.
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Remind yourself that eating a potato chip with Kindfulness is vitally important.

Remind yourself that eating a potato chip with Kindfulness is vitally important.

Remind yourself that eating a potato chip with Kindfulness is vitally important.

Kindfulness brings in more, that in modern times we're losing that connection with our heart

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Title: Kindfulness brings in more, that in modern times we're losing that connection with our heart
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What mindfulness has come to be -- which is being aware and accepting -- is about a technique, and it really needs to be something broader...

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<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">What mindfulness has come to be -- which is being aware and accepting -- is about a technique, and it really needs to be something broader and deeper. Mindfulness really needs to include people's motivations. In short, mindfulness lacks heart, and you could also say it lacks soul because it is lacking a depth. What mindfulness has come to be -- which is being aware and accepting -- is about a technique, and it really needs to be something broader and deeper. Mindfulness really needs to include people's motivations. In short, mindfulness lacks heart, and you could also say it lacks soul because it is lacking a depth. Kindfulness brings in more, that in modern times we're losing that connection with our heart</span>

Kindfulness brings in more, that in modern times we're losing that connection with our heart

What mindfulness has come to be -- which is being aware and accepting -- is about a technique, and it really needs to be something broader...

Our Solution the practice of lovingkindness in everyday life

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Our Solution the practice of lovingkindness in everyday life We don’t just cultivate ,lovingkindness, in our meditation. It can be cult...

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<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Our Solution the practice of lovingkindness </span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">in everyday life<br /><br />We don’t just cultivate ,lovingkindness, in our meditation. It can be cultivated, and eventually experienced, in every aspect of our lives.<br /><br />We can take lovingkindness practice into our daily lives, and develop it in our interactions with friends, family, and even with strangers. As with anything else, practice helps us to become better at what we do. Of course we’ll make mistakes — we’ll lose our tempers, harbour grudges, have irrational dislikes, fail to be compassionate even when our friends are suffering — but making mistakes is just a part of the process of learning any skill. The important thing is that we try to learn from our experience. But one of the lovely things about developing lovingkindness is that our mess-ups offer us an opportunity to develop greater kindness toward ourselves. We have the opportunity to realise that “to err is human.” We have the opportunity to forgive ourselves.<br /><br />Really what we’re talking about when we’re discussing taking lovingkindness into daily life is practicing ethics. But this isn’t ethics understood in terms of obeying rules, or in terms of escaping punishments and earning rewards (LovingKindness </span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">has its own rewards, but they are simply the natural consequences of our actions, not something handed out by an external judge). What we’re talking about is in developing a quality of awareness that is kindly and compassionate. And this quality of awareness leads to us acting, more and more, in a naturally kind way. It’s said in fact, that someone who is enlightened no longer has to practice ethics. They’re naturally ethical, because acting with meditation and compassion comes naturally when you’re enlightened.<br /><br />Until we’re enlightened we do have to work at being kinder and more compassionate to ourselves and others, but in time we find that it comes naturally, just as with learning any other skill.<br /><br />Cultivating LovingKindness in meditation has an effect on how we behave in our daily lives. Even if we don’t notice that we’re kinder, other people often do. But how we act in our daily lives also affects how easy it is to cultivate lovingkindness in our meditation practice. If you’ve been finding fault with others all day, or have been involved in arguments, when you sit down to meditate you’re going to find that your mind is turbulent and conflicted. The arguments and fault-finding will continue in your mind, even though you’re the only person there.<br /><br />On the other hand if, during the day, you let go of critical thoughts whenever you notice them, try to speak kindly, and try to empathise with others even if you disagree with them, then when you sit in meditation you’re going to find that you feel better about yourself and that it’s easier to connect with a sense of kindness.<br /><br />So the relationship between meditation and daily life is a two-way street. Each has effects on the other. If we are trying to cultivate lovingkindness in meditation but are acting in our daily lives in a way that undermines our kindness, then we’re obviously going to get “stuck” in our development.<br /><br />In fact this might be one of the most common causes of lack of progress in meditation – that we are busy undoing the effects of our meditation while at work or with friends and families. So we need to look at every aspect of our lives and see to what extent it helps or hinders our development of LovingKindness.</span><br />
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We, have been conditioning ourselves

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Krack our Konditioning

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Title: Krack our Konditioning
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Think for ourself, trust the process. “Krack our Konditioning.” Let’s kYk it! It’s time for a r-evolution for the body, mind, and spi...

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<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />Think for ourself, trust the process. “Krack our Konditioning.” Let’s kYk it!  It’s time for a r-evolution for the body, mind, and spirit. <br /><br />Join us as we embark on this journey of cracking our social and personal conditioning and finding a way back to our true Selves our child hidden within.</span><br />
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At the Ten Stages we recognise that meditation uses words, images, and feelings to evoke a lovingkindness and friendliness toward oneself and others is the healing balm of our practice.

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Title: At the Ten Stages we recognise that meditation uses words, images, and feelings to evoke a lovingkindness and friendliness toward oneself and others is the healing balm of our practice.
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At the Ten Stages we recognise that meditation uses words, images, and feelings to evoke a lovingkindness and friendliness toward oneself ...

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<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />At the Ten Stages we recognise that meditation uses words, images, and feelings to evoke a lovingkindness and friendliness toward oneself and others is the healing balm of our practice.<br /><br />With each recitation of the phrases, we are expressing an intention, planting the seeds of loving wishes over and over in our heart.<br /><br />With a loving heart as the background, all that we attempt, all that we encounter will open and flow easily.<br /><br />You can begin the practice of lovingkindness by meditating for fifteen or twenty minutes in a quiet place. Let yourself sit in a comfortable fashion. Let your body rest and be relaxed. Let your heart be soft. Let go of any plans and preoccupations.<br /><br />Begin with yourself. Breathe gently, and recite inwardly the following traditional phrases directed to your own well-being. You begin with yourself because without loving yourself it is almost impossible to love others.<br /><br />May I be filled with lovingkindness.<br /><br />May I be safe from inner and outer dangers.<br /><br />May I be well in body and mind.<br /><br />May I be at ease and happy.<br /><br />As you repeat these phrases, picture yourself as your are now, and hold that image in a heart of lovingkindness. Or perhaps you will find it easier to picture yourself as a young and beloved child. Adjust the words and images in any way you wish. Create the exact phrases that best open your heart of kindness. Repeat these phrases over and over again, letting the feelings permeate your body and mind. Practice this meditation for a number of weeks, until the sense of lovingkindness for yourself grows.<br /><br />Be aware that this meditation may at times feel mechanical or awkward. It can also bring up feelings contrary to lovingkindness, feelings of irritation and anger. If this happens, it is especially important to be patient and kind toward yourself, allowing whatever arises to be received in a spirit of friendliness and kind affection.<br /><br />When you feel you have established some stronger sense of lovingkindness for yourself, you can then expand your meditation to include others. After focusing on yourself for five or ten minutes, choose a benefactor, someone in your life who has loved or truly cared for you. Picture this person and carefully recite the same phrases:<br /><br />May you be filled with lovingkindness.<br /><br />May you be safe from inner and outer dangers.<br /><br />May you be well in body and mind.<br /><br />May you be at ease and happy.<br /><br />Let the image and feelings you have for your benefactor support the meditation. Whether the image or feelings are clear or not does not matter. In meditation they will be subject to change. Simply continue to plant the seeds of loving wishes, repeating the phrases gently no matter what arises.<br /><br />Expressing gratitude to our benefactors is a natural form of love. In fact, some people find lovingkindness for themselves so hard, they begin their practice with a benefactor. This too is fine. The rule in lovingkindness practice is to follow the way that most easily opens your heart.</span><br />
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